My "marriage proposals"
Being at the age of 25, I have had two men proposed to me before.
Lucky me, you may think. But there is sure a good reason why I am still single now.
The guys, they just proposed at the most unusual ways. Ways that I can't help it but turned them down.
The 1st dude, was someone I really thought that I would end up marrying to and have a "happily-ever-after" ending. We had a wonderful five years relationship that ended as a "tragedy".
Anyway, I cant really remember when, but it was definitely after we broke off, he came up to my place one day and tried to patch things up. He suddenly said this, "You know? I really wanna marry you. I really want you as my wife. Just gimme two more years. Two more years and I'll want to marry you. I know your dream is to be ........blah...blah...blah...Will you?Will you gimme the chance, please?"
Oh boy.. you made everything sounded so wonderful. I was really touched for that moment, in fact I cried. But we have broke off! We had said and done things that hurt each other! How can I just forget everything and jumped up to say "YES! I DO!"?? I'm sorry. I can't do it.
But well, I'm glad that you did got married two years later.. I'm happy that you are happy too. Cross my heart.. but it's really weird to know that you are using (what bud called it as), "Recycled Ideas".
Then the 2nd guy. Someone I barely knew for a few months, and definately less than 6 months. He was nice and sweet. Kept buying me gifts and flowers. Be my "chauffeur". Then soon, he started to freak me out.
He will start saying things like, "You know, I was thinking, if one day we ever got married, I wouldn't mind moving to SK from Bukit P. cause I know you wanna be close to your family."
"I know you like to be a taitai.. if we ever get married, just gimme two more years, I can be sure that you don't have to work anymore."
"If someone buy you a five carat diamond ring now, will you marry him?"
To all the above questions/ suggestions and more of which I did not mentioned, I was freaked by that guy! Cause we were just dating then, not even in a relationship!! And the moving from west to east, freak me the most! Cause that guy not only saty in the west, he works in the west, FAR west, too!
Then the most scariest part came. One fine day, he companied me and my dog to the vet. while waiting for the medications, he suddenly placed his hands on mine and said, "Will you please gimme a chance to take care of you and snow?" I FREAKED!! YES! I DID!! Anyway, I dunno how or when, that guy just somehow made himself disappeared ever since.. Thank God!
So, as bud knows, somedays I may just wine and cry saying "No man wants me..." but I guess I am happy this way, better than have these weird "marriage proposals" come knocking at my door. Yes, I still wanna get married and start my own family but I choose to wait. Wait till my Prince Charming come knocking at my door, kneeling down and ask for my hand!
Hahaha! Yup, I'll be waiting...
Lucky me, you may think. But there is sure a good reason why I am still single now.
The guys, they just proposed at the most unusual ways. Ways that I can't help it but turned them down.
The 1st dude, was someone I really thought that I would end up marrying to and have a "happily-ever-after" ending. We had a wonderful five years relationship that ended as a "tragedy".
Anyway, I cant really remember when, but it was definitely after we broke off, he came up to my place one day and tried to patch things up. He suddenly said this, "You know? I really wanna marry you. I really want you as my wife. Just gimme two more years. Two more years and I'll want to marry you. I know your dream is to be ........blah...blah...blah...Will you?Will you gimme the chance, please?"
Oh boy.. you made everything sounded so wonderful. I was really touched for that moment, in fact I cried. But we have broke off! We had said and done things that hurt each other! How can I just forget everything and jumped up to say "YES! I DO!"?? I'm sorry. I can't do it.
But well, I'm glad that you did got married two years later.. I'm happy that you are happy too. Cross my heart.. but it's really weird to know that you are using (what bud called it as), "Recycled Ideas".
Then the 2nd guy. Someone I barely knew for a few months, and definately less than 6 months. He was nice and sweet. Kept buying me gifts and flowers. Be my "chauffeur". Then soon, he started to freak me out.
He will start saying things like, "You know, I was thinking, if one day we ever got married, I wouldn't mind moving to SK from Bukit P. cause I know you wanna be close to your family."
"I know you like to be a taitai.. if we ever get married, just gimme two more years, I can be sure that you don't have to work anymore."
"If someone buy you a five carat diamond ring now, will you marry him?"
To all the above questions/ suggestions and more of which I did not mentioned, I was freaked by that guy! Cause we were just dating then, not even in a relationship!! And the moving from west to east, freak me the most! Cause that guy not only saty in the west, he works in the west, FAR west, too!
Then the most scariest part came. One fine day, he companied me and my dog to the vet. while waiting for the medications, he suddenly placed his hands on mine and said, "Will you please gimme a chance to take care of you and snow?" I FREAKED!! YES! I DID!! Anyway, I dunno how or when, that guy just somehow made himself disappeared ever since.. Thank God!
So, as bud knows, somedays I may just wine and cry saying "No man wants me..." but I guess I am happy this way, better than have these weird "marriage proposals" come knocking at my door. Yes, I still wanna get married and start my own family but I choose to wait. Wait till my Prince Charming come knocking at my door, kneeling down and ask for my hand!
Hahaha! Yup, I'll be waiting...
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