Monday, August 21, 2006

Singapore girls vs Malaysia girls

Yes, I know its a very sensitive issue, but I just can't take it anymore.

Mr. EX policeman been talking about this till I can't take it.. And today he talked about it AGAIN over dinner!

I would laughed it off in the past when my guy friends pass the remark, "M'sia girls are better. They are more loyal and faithful than S'pore girls."

But now, my guy friends are taking up to another level!

"S'pore girls are more materialistic than M'sia girls. M'sia girls are more down-to-earth."

HELLO!!!!!

Okie, before I start biting heads off here, lemme just clarify some things.

1) I have lots of M'sian relatives. My grandma's sibilings are mostly M'sian and most of them are still living in M'sia.
2) My mum is a M'sian, so is my aunt and uncle (her sibilings).
3) And yes, I'm still living under the same roof with them.

Alright, back to the topic.

Not ALL S'pore girls are materialistic!
Not ALL M'sia girls are down-to-earth!

I'm so sorry that you, Mr. EX policeman, that you met some local girls that are so-called materialistic.

Local girls that told you, guys must own a car in order to win their hearts and etc.
Local girls who said, they want their boyfriends to drive them around. Send them to work and fetch them after work.
Local girls who said that it is so sweeeet for guys who are able to appear @ their doorsteps as a surprise! even though its like 4am in the morning, just to pass them EyeMore cause the princess complained of eye pain earlier over the phone. (& that those guys who are able to do that cause they DRIVE and own a CAR!)

Ahem...

And you happened to meet M'sia girls who are "brave" enough to leave their homes and come to S'pore to work. And that they appeared to be more down-to-earth to you.



Now, my say:

Not ALL S'pore girls want a boyfriend who "die-die" also must own a car! Yes, I do agree that it is a bonus if your boyfriend drives BUT in a relationship, a car does NOT mean everything! So what if your boyfriend owns a bloody beautiful modified WRX STI when the only chance you got to sit in it, is when he wants you to help vaccum its interior?!

And what's the big deal if a guy has a fucking good career that earns big bucks but the only time you get to see your guy, is only after you wake up almost every morning and find him still sleeping after the previous night of "entertaining clients" or "overtime work"?!

And delivering a bottle of EyeMore @ 4am because princess' eye hurts? Hello! Not ALL girls will entertain that! UNLESS the girl is interested in that guy too. And this apply to any girls, NOT just S'pore girls! And for Christ's sake, if that guy drives and do that, yes, it's sweet of him. BUT if that guy doesn't drive, yet willing to take a cab from East to West, just to pass princess the EyeMore, I personally think that it's even sweeter!!

M'sia girls are "brave" enough to leave homes and come to S'pore to work? Err... S'pore is not very far from M'sia leh.. You don't have to take a flight in order to reach M'sia from here. Just have to cross the Causeway...

Yes, they're brave in some ways but that doesn't mean they are better than S'pore girls. There are S'pore girls who are daring enough to leave the Safe City and work in other countries. In fact, I do know a lady who left S'pore to work in Sri Lanka, Vietnam and on Crusie ships before! All by herself! That is what I will call "BRAVE"!

And everyone is looking for a better life, regardless sex or race or whatever. Everyone wants a better life. How good they want their life to be depends on individuals. We CANNOT judge them on that. If we do, then M'sai girls who come to S'pore and work are materialistic too, and so are those who choose to marry S'pore men!

In my personal opinion, I think you, Mr EX policeman, are not confident of yourself. You ought to learn to love yourself more. Love your height, your career, your status and your own identity. Then maybe you will be able to wake up your "KUKU" ideas!

This is also apply to the rest of you who think that M'sia girls are BETTER than S'pore girls!!!


Phew! Now I feel soooooooo much more better....





Bud, this is for you too.. feel better? ha!






posted by lovesweetpoison at 12:35 AM

4 Comments:

Blogger after1981 said...

well said. well said.

4:25 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Clap Clap Clap loh...great post!

In any case, I would label myself materialistic shamelessly. BUT, none of my branded stuff are paid by my bf nor does he drive nor does he even pick me up from work loh! Never! I got legs to walk myself. I got brains to earn the things I want lor...

I mean girls these days can earn what we want ourself loh..we don't need to rely on the bloody loser men who are kaobei-ing about Singapore girls because we're of a different level than them and they simply can't afford us that's why they're kao-bei-ing lor!.. Pui! Losers men..

11:58 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

interesting blog....own a WRX btw but i believe in life there is more than car.....and belive me i ferry my gf from work everyday without fail :)....

cheers

12:36 AM  
Blogger lovesweetpoison said...

hi anonymous,
glad that you find this blog interesting.
And its good to know that you do "ferry" your girl everyday from work without fail!
Keep it up!

Cheers!

4:12 AM  

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