Arrrr!!!!

They said it's never easy to be a leader..
How much more can I agree to it?
It's hard...
Very hard...
It reminds me of how it was like when I was still in Red Cross Youth.
You need to strive hard to prove to others that you can lead, especially when they are your peers.

I had a bad day at work today..
I am stressed by my HR manager..
And to have my colleague raising her voice at me, does not help at all..
Worse when my boyfriend kinda losing his patience on me, for asking him to send my handphone back to me..

I can only email Sock, pouring out my unhappiness to him..
Sock always gimme his listening ear...
Something, not many humans have...
I admire and thank God for his patience for me...
Really miss Sock...
BOO!!

Here some tips Sock had shared with me...
Hope these can help any of you if you are facing the same boo situation like me..

1)There are always different strokes for different people and at times we cannot please everyone, as long as we concentrate on the issues and not persons.

2)There must be reasons that things happened, hence find out the causes instead of the effects.

3)Always remember if there are issues, and not due to negative attitudes, as leader, we must be responsible,find out again the causes.

4)Respect is to be earned not reinforced, unless is matter of life and death, eg doctors in surgery...orders are to be obeyed diligently.

5)At times we make unpopular decisions...this is part and parcel of leadership.



Boo boo!! I miss Sock...